Now with PrEP there’s basically no risk – other than with run-of-the-mill STIs that can be cured it’s all pretty much safe sex these days – which isn’t nearly as fun.
So for me sex has always been a game of calculated risk. I mean I came out in 1989 – so for the first 7 years of my gay life sex was synonymous with risk – and bareback fucking was extremely high risk – it could literally kill you. It always amazed me that a bottom’s desire to be bred was stronger than their desire to stay neg. I used to really get off on a neg bottom just trusting/hoping I was neg. One thing I will say is that I really miss the risk there used to be with barebacking – back before there was PrEP. There’s a lot I could say about what’s been going on with me, but not quite ready to share all the gory details quite yet.
